I was taught by a guru teacher which I find it very meaningful to send this message to my children: Please do not grow up too fast. It is a mistake to grow up soon. Grow up naturally. It is important to have fun now. Prepare to have fun in 10 years time. Who know you will die early. But if you die early, it is important to have fun now. Even if you stay longer, you should know how to have fun! It is important to study. Learn about ecology and earth, how to protect the earth. Not just about maths, science and politics. You should also help others to have fun. If you think only you going to have fun, and let others suffer, you are not going to have fun. To be kind and compassion is important.