I have a couple friends who are going through separation. Both of them are my close friends and when one of them broke the news to me I thought she was joking. I wished they could patch back and I called some of my friends to discuss about their problem hopefully if we could help them and give them some support. Well, the problem isn’t so simple and there is nothing anyone of us is able to help.

I thought it was a pity…(sigh!) I remember two years back, one month before I realized I had my 2nd pregnancy I was helping them with the wedding dinner.. Me and SH was very excited and we brought our kids and husband along. While we were helping them, our husbands took care of the little ones. Of course children can’t sit still; they were all running and had fun outside the ballroom. There were many tables, children, laughter and familiar faces… well… well… well… what can I say now.

I thought they were going to have babies after 1 or 2 years later. I was looking forward there was another couple joining our ‘CO New Generation Parenting Group’. We share discussion and bring our kids out together and had lots of fun…

To cut the story short, when one of them talked to me the other day I was reflecting about myself as a wife.

I think we have to appreciate about whatever the partner has been helping us even a small favor which he/she might not do well. The word ‘Thank You’ helped the person to do a better job the next time and hopefully better. Complaining make a relationship worst.

There is more problem than this. I just felt pity for them. If there is a gathering we would not be able to see one of them. Sigh!