Zofie has a great daddy

Now I am in my last trimester. I can see myself getting fat and ugly. The stupid thigh is so huge! I didn’t have the mood to gloom myself like before. Who doesn’t want to be a beautiful mummy? It would be blest if I would get a lot of sleep like the last pregnancy. A lot of time I hardly squat to pick up things up. Leo is a great daddy. Besides working late and most of the time he will try to fetch Zofie from Childcare during lunch time, he makes every afford to carry Zofie wherever we go and entertained her in car while she sits in the front. He tries to change her dipper, feed her with milk and help me with all the washing. Leo can do anything accept reading to Zofie, doing flash cards and play the toys with her.

I have a friend who just email me asking me to watch his theater production. I remember the last time when the group of us were all single and have to work late, we could chat and gossip till 3 4am. So what am I doing now? I am the only one staying at home and change dipper, feed milk and push stroller?

Zofie is great as well. Accept when she didn’t want to sleep she would get scolding from me. There was once she slept only 9hrs (nap + bed time) and she got screaming from me. I wish to carry her more often but when she sits on me she really hurt my tummy. This baby is super active… I mean it is good that the baby kicks a lot that shows that the baby is healthy. Zofie eats and play well. There was once, Leo and I were so tired and Zofie refuse to nap, we could not take any longer so we decided to let her play on her own for 2 hrs while both of us went to nap without looking after at her. Of course she made a lot of noise while playing but I guess it is good that she don’t climb a lot at home. But… but… she runs a lot when we were out.

I stopped all her DVDs. She has not been watching television for 3 weeks. Now she is getting back to her books and toys. Every morning when she woke up she would flip her books and do some drawing. I am not too sure if I would have so much time with her when the sibling is out. I make books for Zofie but when the new sibling is out I do not think I have the time and efforts for both.




I wish all my kids have the character of the father. He is patience, loving and caring. I talked to his this family during the weekend. The mother and sisters told me I can’t compare Leo with all his nephews. Leo is born with no violence which means he never fight with siblings, neighbors or in school. All along he has been the same. I think a mum with this kind of child will be very happy. I know kids will change esp teenage years.





Yesterday morning I decided to bring her to Bumbini since it rains in the morning and the playground were wet. She enjoyed playing on her own.